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Why we so ghetto? I asked! I believe people act much ghetto base on the condition of each individual upbringings. The word ghetto came from some Jewish guy who way back in the days would say "ghetto" to define a segregated area or community. I believe he would say this word ghetto to actually name a section of the community as "not for us" and it all made sense. The ghetto people that were mainly black was label ghetto as a different community throughout northern America. 

Much like today the ghetto is base on a low level community structured to assist those less fortunate. But throughout the decades of ghetto housing; statistics shows the most crimes and other shameful activities happens in the community ghettos. The same structure that was designed to built and help the people of less fortunate; it too, also have hurt the communities traumatically. So the question is why do some people act ghetto? It can be many reasons why someone is so ghetto! But now a days it's not where you from can make you ghetto, but how you're raised, and how you act, can be the reason someone would be ghetto too. 

Every ghetto in the nation have suffered a great deal of climate chaos. Miami ghetto have been a tough era to look at. Chicago ghettos got the ghetto streets upside down with this new city theme called Chiraq. Baltimore ghettos are always overlooked but they are as bad as the others, if not worst. Atlanta ghettos always been quiet on the map, but best believe they making loud noise with ghetto features. L.A ghettos started it from the beginning with the red and blue segregation. New Orleans ghetto have been call ghetto as a whole city, that's how ghetto it is. New York ghettos are darker than a blind man's vision. All across the nation ghettos have been embedded, rather from Cleveland, Detroit, Texas or the West the ghettos are there.

They are many people that never lived in a ghetto environment that are more ghetto than the ghetto itself. 

But who are you to blame some people really want to be ghetto; they act it so well they become ghetto. They are people that lived in the ghetto all their lives and will never show a fiber of ghettoness until that boiling point. Acting ghetto have been avoid as time and time passes but it had explained to be a noun of someone doing the ignorant self destructive actions. The word "Nigga" have restored the codes of ghettos, but that's another story. Why are some people so, ghetto? Many reasons can include but not limit to attention, dysfunctional conditions, life alters, surroundings, etc...

Hip hop today seems to have the same theme; rather it be about Apples or peanuts, the common elements must come up. But why do rappers cannot just stick to the subject anymore? 

They must include how many money they have, how they so hard, the girl they with, how they done did it all or got it all. And forget what the topic of the song was about; it just have to sound good and get enough wave and followers, then that's a hit in the industry!Really!

Where's the creativity that the rap industry used to have? Everyone seems to be distracted with the beat and or dance; they don't really care to listen what's being said. "True" First it must sound good then a little up words will have a crowd going; 

But the same elements seems to appear in rap music are typical drug, sex, violence, material, money, acting up, stupidity music with no substance. I mean, we heard it all before too many times already in different fonts, ways, and/or situations, etc...; why not come with some real life song scenarios that sounds great rather just good. 

The music today input so much wrong with a parade of hype for destruction, it's starting to sound pointless. But apparently the ones continuously bringing different music to the industry will be the survivors of this falling industry of hip hop in my opinion. 

We can see the trend for smartphones are more and more in demands. When buying a smart phone, we must be smart. Today smartphones are like selling drugs, why? Because everybody wants or needs a smartphone in their everyday lives somehow, someway. I mean people are getting addicted to the latest new device and they're very pricey. So can you afford to lose money when buying today's most dominant item on the market? 

Buying the right smartphone can be a big dilemma for the average Joe. Try paying over $200 for a phone, that later you find out; that it can't be use in your country. Money to Blow, in this crazy economy, try your luck going to the casino and playing a game of poker. Seriously losing money buying a smartphone is a serious issue. In the black market scammers will fast talk you into buying a phone that will only work for a couple hours, if that. Once the transaction is done it's usually final, when purchasing a smartphone from the streets. So you know all the popular site that supports or have no control over these phone pirates.

Craigslist, eBay, etc... are the main chain sites where shopping change hands. Some sellers on the net are not all bad, they just want to make a dollars and trying to upgrade (resale) their smartphone themselves. And they're some that will distract, con, and cheese you at the same time to ripped you off. But if you know the steps when buying a smartphone you will be ok. 

Step 1: Know what you want and need about the smartphone you are purchasing.
Many times the smartphone you are buying, may not be the right phone; depending on the reasons used.

Step 2: Try buying from someone you know and can come back to just in case things go wrong (local phone store).
When buying from a stranger there are too many risks and this can lead to a total loss.

Step 3: Always check the phone esn/imei on the free check esn sites.
Swappa.com, iunlocker.net are few of the trusted sites to check the status of the smartphone esn. (*#06# usually works to find smartphone id)

Step 4: Thoroughly check the functionality of the device you are buying, you'll be surprised what doesn't work.
Check everything, take your time it's your money spend it right.

Step 5: Try having someone with you that can see things from afar (outside looking in) they can see things you maybe missed.
Having an extra person can prevent your chances of being robbed or played.

Step 6: Contact your phone provider for more info of the smartphone you are purchasing.
Many phone carriers will be willing to help with making sure the smartphone you buying is clear; plus they always appreciate your business.

Step 7: Make a phone call to test and talk for at-least a minute.
Making a phone call most likely can determine if it will work and operate correctly.

Step 8: Pay for the device when you are completely sure it has pass your green light inspections. Before buying, check the smartphone for blacklist or finance, iCloud lock, Google lock, camera functions, sensors, cracks, does it charge, fingerprint functions, etc...

After buying a good working smartphone, you now want to protect your investment.

Buying a quality case and screen protector to avoid any mishaps that may lead to costly damages. Keeping your smartphone in great condition will help shave off some cost on your next upgrade. Enjoy your new smartphone....

Today's Relationship vs The Traditional, what changed? 

Well if we see what's going on in today's society we might find the answer to what's happening in today relationships. Couples nowadays are in more of the upgrade, test drive before you buy business. Like an automobile salesman, the dating game can be a lot similar that many think. No one wants to commit nowadays, why should they? Look at all the variety of great people in this world, and there are some things everyone can get enough of, or maybe even wants to drive someone at-least once in their lifetime! 

Welcome to the future of speed dating. Life is too short why not live it up right! The relationship time span today is about six months, until your partner is convinced that they really want to be with you. Back in the days, people would get married, have children, raise their families, and live life right; right. "Now why run after them all when you can walk and get them all" Relationship doesn't not consist of only sex, you would think but what when the joy of sex gets dull in the bed room? huh! Make it your theme park because relationship consists of many great amusement, obligations, respect, sharing, etc... So enjoy the best of it.  

Broken homes come from a lack of communication, responsibility, and support. Kids having kids, no father figure, single parents, all are examples of today's relationship history traits broken. 

People search the world for love but never can find it. Some confuse love with lust but many say they can go hand and hand. Where is love you asked? Well from my experience love is patient, love is kind, love is blind! You may never find love looking for it you can just get lucky and stumbled over love tomorrow for all we know. If we look deep into the things we really want. You may have a perception on things you want and because of it you may overlook what's really matters.  

To seek real love is to seek love within. When you totally understand yourself can move to love someone else. What do you love most? Love is a feeling many say it has an emotions many cannot withstand; "People with much love live better than those with much money!" Do your loved ones find ways to stop you from crying, love plays a big role in the way you treat others. Love is out there but the steps to find it can be overwhelming. But one thing love can be is contagious. What is love, what it means to you, what makes you happy, these questions can be a first step to finding real love.

Finding the right girl these days are fairly hard but we as men don't have to suffer, right? Right! Well I've had my share of crazy woman but there are some females that are actually alright.
We all know that one girl you have a crush on barely see you but what if the one you're into is not really into you? We as men do want that great gorgeous stunting trophy to take home to mom; and have everyone scratching their heads. But what if that girl who you are so attracted to; may perhaps be your worst nightmare. 

Beautiful Woman can be conniving and promiscuous; really having you heard the beautifulest people can do the ugliest things. Well it's true your dream girl might not be a big fan of love. Love is complicated too many emotions involved too many obligations to fulfill. But if you feel and know love it's the best thing in the world especially from a crush.
The girl that likes you will show you she likes you without any of your status level perks. See some woman or maybe most women have a motive to be at your attention. To find that girl that likes you for you;
How can I differentiate a keeper from a Golddigger?

In these days in age the web is the source for many big business of the world. I mean imagine paying your bills with one single click; without leaving your home and by saving gas and time, pretty sweet right! Well, guess what people out there are making a fortune just by having the right components in one single web page. Just like that anybody with the right creative idea that have an established design when putting it all together and knowing how to direct traffic to their site then you are on the way to success. But the hardest part about your idea is letting the world know what your presenting rather a product service or even information. These are the ways to get traffic to your site. 

1. Get a website hosting and domain name
2. Find out what is your best service you can provide or something you're good at
3. Write about it on a regular
4. Monetize your site with Adsense or any other publisher's market
5. Use relevant keywords
6. Use Adwords tools to help with higher ranking in Google search